December Book Giveaway Contest
I'm excited to be promoting the upcoming new release of my friend, Liza Palmer — a fabulous writer — for her book "A Field Guide to Burying Your Parents." This book, published by 5 Spot, hits the shelves on 12/23, but you can win your copy here! She's been doing her best to live her new life apart from them, but when their estranged father has a stroke and summons them, Grace suddenly realizes she's done the same thing he had done...abandoned those who need her most.
And need her they do, for inside the hospital walls, a strange war is unfolding between the pseudo-kindly woman who is their father's second wife and the rest of the original Hawkes clan. Upon reconnecting with her brother and sisters, Grace will find a part of herself she thought was lost forever. As they unravel the manipulative deception of the second Mrs. Hawkes, Grace will finally be able to stand up for her family-- and to remember what a family is, even after all these years.
Not only am I excited about giving readers the chance to win one of three copies of Liza's book, but I'm thrilled to introduce Liza Palmer to readers who haven't yet read one of her books. And let me tell you, I strongly suggest you pick up her previous two books, as well. You won't be disappointed. Liza writes with an equally strong balance of wit and poignancy, drawing you into the characters' lives and their world.
Following are some questions I asked Liza and her responses, to give you some insight into her process and this book:
What inspired the plot of this particular story?
I think all my novels are based on this elaborate “What If?” game. I started with an idea of a particularly extreme situation: a family torn apart twenty years ago by a father that abandons them, is torn apart again when their single mother dies five years prior to the book's beginning and is now threatening to tear apart once again when their estranged father has a stroke and summons the children to his bedside. I love the idea of the absolute paradox of grief: that in moments of such extreme sadness there are these hints of the most beautiful glimmers you've ever seen: in your loved ones, in yourself, in the world around you. Therein lies the paradox that is the engine for “A Field Guide to Burying Your Parents.” The absolute wrenching beauty of loss and love and how Grace (and the rest of the Hawkes clan) deals with it.
All of your books have such a strong family dynamic. Do you tend to insert different parts of yourself into each character, and do the characters mirror people you know and your own family dynamics?
My novels never start out as family dramas, but I find myself asking one question about my main character and boom: I'm flipping wildly through their old photo albums. I just don't think you can really know your main character until you dig up all the family dirt and understand where they came from.
I think to some extent I have to understand every character from the inside out - and certain characters resonate more than others. Grace is definitely a character that is near and dear to my heart, but so is John. And every Hawkes sibling has a trait here and there that I am more than a little friendly with. Jeez, the more I think about this question the less I answer it. Sigh. So, maybe I should just...moooove on before someone gets hurt.
How did you come up with the title?
The title for this book was definitely a thorn in my side. For my first two novels (“Conversations with the Fat Girl” and “Seeing Me Naked”), the titles came first - but this one was a little more stubborn. I played with the main character's name (Grace) a lot and then quickly realized that a billion other people had already had that idea. As I sat writing one day I was listening to my iTunes and I have it set to show the album cover of the song playing and Chris Walla's Sing Again came on off the Field Manual album. And I just stared at it. That feeling. That tingling, world stopping moment when you actually feel the creative spark - not to be confused with the All Spark. Same idea, but not something desired by Megatron. So, I played with the word Field and really thought about the book - which, by that time, was close to finished. And soon Rubiks Cubed my way to “A Field Guide to Burying Your Parents.” There are obvious concerns when announcing such a title - I get the odd "Is it...uh...non-fiction?" with a furtive glance to my parents. But, usually it's met with curiosity and a nod to the tongue and cheek humor that needs to be present during such a dark time in one's life.
What do you like the most about your heroine? Would you be friends with her in real life?
I love Grace's ability to tap into her own rage. I know this is a bizarre answer, but it really is what I just love about her. I am more than a little fed up with heroines who are "nice" and "sweet" and someone who is to be protected and bubble wrapped. I love that Grace has no qualms about jumping into the fray uninvited. And then, of course, the lovely underbelly of a character like this is stripping them down and seeing what they're afraid of. What they feel vulnerable against. I loved exploring this with Grace - and by having a character so in touch with her own rage - what that did to the family unit. So, Grace is the rager - where does that leave the other 3 siblings? One of the nurses in the ICU makes a reference to the Hawkes siblings being like the kids in the Narnia books - which leaves our little Grace in Edmund's shoes. I was actually comfortable with this parallel - as it seemed to me that Edmund was the only sibling to really question Peter or authority or really anything. Which is exactly how I see Grace.
I'd love to be friends with her...I think she'd be awesome to hang out with. Okay...so yes, I'd be hanging out with her to get an introduction to Huston, her ridiculously hot older brother who remains unattached.
What was the hardest part of writing this book?
What's the hardest part of writing any book - THE WRITING. For real. Just sitting down every day with this THING in front of you. Blank pages and a made up world to populate and make come alive. All these little threads trailing hither and yon. I mean, it's this perfect way of being for me - writing is this truly flow experience where everything that makes me ME is being utilized to this one end and I feel like the perfect me when I'm writing - challenged and outside of myself and on and on, but some days, that computer screen is the hardest thing to stare at. There are days when I can literally hear the revving of my brain just clicking over like a dead car battery and it's on those days where I play a lot of solitaire and return emails and all that - I still show up at the computer, mind you - but maybe that day isn't going to get quite the word count that the next day will yield. Many an iTunes playlist has come out of those days. :)
Is there a message in your novel that you want to express to your readers?
I know what I got out of my novel, but it's totally different for each person, you know? That's the beauty of books. They hit you right at the perfect time and speak to you as an individual. Each person will hopefully take something different away from it. At least, that's the goal.
What are you reading now?
I've got Elizabeth Hoyt's newest one (and last one in the series!!!) on the TBR pile, as well as “Her Fearful Symmetry” by Audrey Niffinegger and “Swan Thieves” by Elizabeth Kostova. Can't wait to crack them open.
Do you have a specific writing routine that you follow every day?
Absolutely. I have to. I didn't for awhile and I went a little nuts. I've had to create a whole bribery system to lure me out of my cave (aka house): I took coffee and the internet out of my house. I know. So, this way - to get coffee and the internet I have to go to Starbucks - where I then have to write. I start out at Starbucks in the morning and am allowed to go home when it gets dark so I can walk my dog. I've found that this schedule really calms me down about a lot of stuff. The idea that there are people who are waiting for me somewhat? It helps. The fact that I have to get dressed and not go all feral in the woods with just random scribblings written in my own feces to turn into my editor at the end of the month. You know...it's a good thing.
What career would you want if you weren’t a writer?
I loved all the chef stuff I researched for Elisabeth Page in “Seeing Me Naked.” She was a pastry chef, but I think I'd lean more towards comfort food, tiny restaurant and just a whole neighborhood feel. I can definitely see myself going that route. I worked in a classroom for several years and loved that. Working with kids is always amazing. Our family is chock full of lawyers - so that whole world is very familiar to me. That might be cool, too.
What are you currently working on?
I've got Book Four rocking right now - I'm absolutely in love with it. New characters and a whole new story-line. It's going to be a fun book to write. The main character is Frannie and she's just...she's a cool girl who I'm loving spending my days with.
I'm also working on an original screenplay and an adaptation right now - both projects are fun as hell. I've never been more busy and it's just this invigorating thrill ride where everyday I find myself in awe of what I get to do. What I want to hold on to in all this is the wonder, you know? I want to just be blown away by all of this every day.
Speed Round:
Favorite board game? Scrabble - all the way. Boggle is a close second.
Favorite dessert? My brain just exploded.
Favorite classic movie? Classic... meaning? I can't stop thinking about Major League. Hilarious. Not quite Casablanca, but...how hot was Charlie Sheen though? Tom Berenger?? Ahh, good times.
Favorite “guilty pleasure” movie? Um...see above.
Favorite childhood hero? My Mom.
Favorite hero as an adult? My Mom.
Favorite childhood cartoon? We didn't have tv growing up. I know. I've made up for lost time, I assure you.
Most daring/risky thing you’ve ever done? Thought I could be a writer.
For your chance to win one of THREE copies of "A Field Guide to Burying Your Parents," just leave a comment on this blog post. I'll be drawing the three winning names the morning of Sunday, December 6th. Please leave your email address, so I can contact you if you're a winner. Only U.S. and Canada entries!
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